[docs] Remove sequelpro URL and update database management stuff [ski…

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docs/users/developer-tools.md

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 [phpMyAdmin](https://www.phpmyadmin.net/) is a free software tool to manage MySQL and MariaDB databases from a browser. phpMyAdmin comes installed with ddev. After your project is started, use `ddev launch -p` or just access the phpMyAdmin web interface at its default port, `http://mysite.ddev.site:8036`.
 
-If you use the free [Sequel Pro](https://www.sequelpro.com/) database browser for macOS, run `ddev sequelpro` within a project folder, and Sequel Pro will launch and access the database for that project.
+If you use the free [Sequel Ace](https://github.com/Sequel-Ace/Sequel-Ace) database browser for macOS, run `ddev sequelace` within a project folder, and Sequel Ace will launch and access the database for that project. `ddev sequelpro`, `ddev tableplus`, `ddev heidisql` are also provided for users of those applications. In addition, PhpStorm can be used to browse the database, and there's an example command for [MySQL Workbench](https://www.mysql.com/products/workbench/) in `~/.ddev/commands/host/mysqlworkbench.example`.
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+For more discussion of database management, see the [database management topic](topics/database_management.md).
 
 ## Using Development Tools on the Host Machine
 
 It is possible in many cases to use development tools installed on your host machine on a project provisioned by ddev. Tools that interact with files and require no database connection, such as Git or Composer, can be run from the host machine against the code base for a ddev project with no additional configuration necessary.
 
 ### Database Connections from the Host
 
-If you need to connect to the database of your project from the host machine, run `ddev describe` to retrieve the database connection information. The last line of the database credentials will provide your host connection info, similar to this:
-
-```
-
-To connect to mysql from your host machine, use port 32838 on 127.0.0.1
-For example: mysql --host 127.0.0.1 --port 32838
-
-```
+If you need to connect to the database of your project from the host machine, run `ddev describe` to show the database connection information, like `Host: localhost:49156`.
 
 The port referenced is unique per running project, and randomly chosen from available ports on your system when you run `ddev start`.
 
-**Note:** The host database port is likely to change any time a project is stopped/removed and then later started again.
+You can force this port to be the same on every `ddev start` by setting `host_db_port` in the project .ddev/config.yaml. For example, `host_db_port: "49156"` or `ddev config --host-db-port=49156`. This value needs to be different on each running DDEV project, and unless it is set, the database port will change on every `ddev start`.
 
 ### Using Drush 8 installed Installation on the Host Computer