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# How to Stop Procrastinating by Using the Two-Minute Rule
One of the greatest dancers/choreographer who got awarded some genius grant attributes much of her success to daily habits.

She begins each day at 05:30 AM, put on workout clothes and take a taxi to her gym to workout for two hours.
The ritual is not the strength training, but the cab. The moment she's told the cab driver where to go, the ritual is complete.

Researchers estimate that ~50% of daily actions are done out of habits. But the influence is even greater, because the habits shape your decisions and actions that follow.

They're like an entrance ramp to a highway. Once you go through, there is no going back until you're done.

It's easier to continue than stop at this point, eg:
* You persist for 2 hours through a bad movie
* You continue snacking even though you're full

The author has a critical choice each evening around 05:15 PM - either he puts on workout clothes and goes to the gym or crashes on the couch and watches a TV series.

Every day, there are a handful moments like these which have an outsized impact if you make the right choice.

The accumulation of these choices ultimately leads to a good or bad day:
![good-or-bad-day](images/good-or-bad-day.png)

The decisive moments set the options available to your future self. If you walk into a restaurant, there's only so much you can order.
Your options are shaped by your first choice.

This is why mastering these decisive moments is key to behavior change. Each day has a lot of moments, but it is only a few we need to take care of to lead us to a good trajectory.

Habits are the entry point, not the end point - the cab, not the gym.

## The Two-minute Rule
Even when you know you should start small, it's easy to start too big. Excitement leads you to try and do too many things at the same time.

The most effective way to counteract this tendency is to follow the two-minute rule - when you start a new habit, it should not take you more than two minutes to complete.

Any habit can be scaled down to two minutes:
* Read before bed - read one page before bed
* Do thirty minutes of yoga - take out the yoga mat
* Study - open your notes
* Fold the laundry - fold one pair of socks
* Run three miles - put on running shoes

The idea is to make the new habit as easy as possible to start.

This is a powerful strategy because once you've started doing the right thing, it is easy to keep going.
You need a gateway habit that naturally leads you down to a productive path.

You can figure out the gateway habit by mapping out your goals on a scale of very easy to very hard.
![habit-scales](images/habit-scales.png)

It might feel weird to get excited about reading one page, but the idea is not to do one thing. It is to master the habit of showing up.

A habit must be established before it can be improved. Instead of trying to engineer a perfect habit from the get-go, do the easy thing first on a consistent basis.

As you master the first two minutes, those become a ritual that leads to the beginning of a larger routine.
Make it easy to start and the rest will follow.

To understand the impact of the first two minutes, try doing the first two minutes of a routine and then stopping:
* Start running for two minutes and stop
* Start meditating for two minutes and stop

You'll find that it's much more challenging to stop once you've started.

An example of this put into practice - someone lost a lot of weight by sticking to going to the gym for 2 minutes and leaving. After a while, he started staying more and more as he was already there.

Another one is journaling - people typically give up after trying it for a few days as it feels like a chore. The secret is to always stay below the point where it feels like work.

Another reason this strategy works is that you are reinforcing the identity you want to build. Going to the gym 5 days in a row casts votes in favor if you being a "gym person".

People are typically consumed by the end goal of a habit, but one push up is better than not exercising. It's much better to do less than you hoped for than do nothing at all.

Once you've mastered the two-minute rule, you can combine this with the habit shaping technique to scale your habit towards your ultimate goal.
Move on to the next phase where you're doing a bit more and focus on the first two-minutes of that new stage. Do this until you reach your ultimate goal.

Eventually, you will end up with the habit you wanted while still keeping your focus where it should be - on the first two minutes.

Examples of habit shapings:
![habit-shapings](images/habit-shapings.png)

Nearly any habit can be scaled down to a simple two-minute version. It's a simple way to make your habits easy.
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