[fix](Export) fix dead lock of parallel Exporting (apache#43083)

### What problem does this PR solve?
Problem Summary:
There are 2 locks, lock of ExportMgr and lock of ExportJob(synchronized
lock).
Previously, the lock order is wrong:
1. When cancelling job, it will first get job lock, then getting mgr
lock.
2. When removing old job, it will first get mgr lock, then getting job
lock.

This PR fix it by always getting job lock after mgr lock, to avoid dead lock.

fe/fe-core/src/main/java/org/apache/doris/load/ExportJob.java

@@ -706,7 +706,7 @@ private void cancelExportJobUnprotected(ExportFailMsg.CancelType type, String ms
         if (FeConstants.runningUnitTest) {
             return;
         }
-        Env.getCurrentEnv().getEditLog().logExportUpdateState(id, ExportJobState.CANCELLED);
+        Env.getCurrentEnv().getEditLog().logExportUpdateState(this, ExportJobState.CANCELLED);
     }
 
     private void exportExportJob() {
@@ -749,7 +749,7 @@ private void finishExportJobUnprotected() {
         outfileInfo = GsonUtils.GSON.toJson(allOutfileInfo);
         // Clear the jobExecutorList to release memory.
         jobExecutorList.clear();
-        Env.getCurrentEnv().getEditLog().logExportUpdateState(id, ExportJobState.FINISHED);
+        Env.getCurrentEnv().getEditLog().logExportUpdateState(this, ExportJobState.FINISHED);
     }
 
     public void replayExportJobState(ExportJobState newState) {

fe/fe-core/src/main/java/org/apache/doris/load/ExportJobStateTransfer.java

@@ -54,10 +54,9 @@ public ExportJobStateTransfer() {
     }
 
     // used for persisting one log
-    public ExportJobStateTransfer(long jobId, ExportJobState state) {
-        this.jobId = jobId;
+    public ExportJobStateTransfer(ExportJob job, ExportJobState state) {
+        this.jobId = job.getId();
         this.state = state;
-        ExportJob job = Env.getCurrentEnv().getExportMgr().getJob(jobId);
         this.startTimeMs = job.getStartTimeMs();
         this.finishTimeMs = job.getFinishTimeMs();
         this.failMsg = job.getFailMsg();

fe/fe-core/src/main/java/org/apache/doris/persist/EditLog.java

@@ -1621,8 +1621,8 @@ public void logUpdateCloudReplicas(List<UpdateCloudReplicaInfo> infos) throws IO
         }
     }
 
-    public void logExportUpdateState(long jobId, ExportJobState newState) {
-        ExportJobStateTransfer transfer = new ExportJobStateTransfer(jobId, newState);
+    public void logExportUpdateState(ExportJob job, ExportJobState newState) {
+        ExportJobStateTransfer transfer = new ExportJobStateTransfer(job, newState);
         logEdit(OperationType.OP_EXPORT_UPDATE_STATE, transfer);
     }